I think that the Mumbai tragedy has really brought Chabad to the spotlight. Everyone knows of Chabad and how they’re everywhere, but not everyone always knew the extent to which they operate. The story of the Holtzberg’s showed us what sacrifice they make and what good they can bring. The Holtzberg’s were the source of all kosher food – Gabriel slaughtered meat himself, they led services, bar mitzvahs, weddings, classes, guests every week; single handed. They brought so many people closer to Judaism. Their whole lives were totally absorbed in this purpose, yet they were filled to the brim with humility.
I look around and I see so many organisations along with Chabad, Breslev, etc trying to reach out to people. Yet they all have different ways of doing so. And I think; which is the right one, which is the truth. But really, they’re all right and they’re all true. Judaism from the outside would appear to look segregated and all the different sects appear to be in disagreement. In actuality, every single sect is the correct sect and every single Chassidic sect has the correct rebbe. All Jews stem from one, all Chassidut stems from one. And they’re each simply on their own path with their own tafkid (role) going towards the same goal. And you know what, Hashem helps every single one of them.

Why am I telling you this? Too often, we’re so involved in our own outlook and our own way of doing things that we not only ignore the other methods but we disrespect them. If we just take a moment to explore another community or sect we will see such harmony within Judaism. Ok, X has this minhag, Y says this benching but Z doesn’t, etc – but X, Y and Z are colleagues and brothers. Everyone personally identifies more with one over the other, but we can all get something out of each one. It’s about taking the good from everything and respecting the rest.
I got speaking to a mother who had reluctantly just sent her daughter to seminary. She wasn’t religious herself but was angry that her daughter had become religious and couldn’t understand what she saw in Judaism.
I got to the root of the problem - she then told me that Judaism was forced down her throat, “Do this! Why? Because that’s how it must be done!” She said she rebelled the opposite way, she wasn’t going to listen to that. She couldn’t understand why anyone would want to be religious, “it’s like being in prison, you can’t do anything you want, your whole life is controlled – “you can’t do this, this and this!”
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I looked over the highway, directly across at the place opposite from where I stood. I still had to walk all the way round to the bridge, and then cross the bridge, to get to that spot. And only then would I be in the right neighbourhood, and my journey could continue. I asked myself at that instant, ‘If there’s one place you could be, where would that be?’ The immediate answer was, ‘Right there! Just across the bridge. I’d skip walking round to the bridge, and then crossing the bridge, and I’d be right at that spot over there.’ But just a second, I said to myself. That’s not really where I want to go. My final destination is the shop over in the neighbourhood, not that spot across the bridge! In fact, if I could really choose to ’skip’ out any part of my journey, I’d skip it all, and be back home with all my shopping in one second’s time! (more…)
Representatives from different midrashot (seminaries) are starting to come around to the various girls’ high schools in the area and tell us, the seniors, about the different institutions they represent, what each place has to offer. The choices are astounding: new midrashot seem to be springing up all the time, offering this special program or that special program. There is a program for everyone at every end of the religious spectrum, and the influx of all the information is really quite dizzying.
Interestingly enough, within the past two days, representatives from two very different midrashot said several similar things. When asked about their dress code, they both replied “Halachik.” Both brought up the movie Ushpizin, though for different reasons. But the similarity that struck me was the Dvar Torah they both used to introduce their programs.
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